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MNeagle
21st November 2011, 04:17 PM
Eloise Cardenas, Mom Of 5-Year-Old, Outraged After Daughter's Ears Were Pierced At Daycare

When Eloise Cardenas dropped her five-year-old Mia off at daycare last Wednesday, she expected her daughter to play games, read books and, with luck, take a nap. But she got much more than she bargained for. At pickup, Cardenas discovered Mia's ears had been pierced during the schoolday; she was wearing new hoops.

According to The Star-Telegram (http://www.star-telegram.com/2011/11/17/3535006/mom-irate-after-5-year-olds-ears.html), one of the little girl's teachers at KinderCare in Fort Knox, TX told Cardenas that Mia had been complaining that her ears hurt. It turned out this was because a different teacher had pierced the child's ears, and Cardenas was furious. The ear-piercing teacher's response? "Mia said it was OK."

"I said, 'She's a kid. You're the adult. You should have known better,'" Cardenas told the newspaper. According to NBC DFW (http://www.nbcdfw.com/news/local/Childs-Ears-Pierced-at-Day-Care-Without-Mothers-Permission-134143868.html), KinderCare released the following statement in response to the incident:

"The teacher did place her earrings in the child's pierced ears. The safety and security of the children in our care is our top priority. We take this situation seriously and have reported it to State Licensing. In addition, the teacher was disciplined."Cardenas and her husband aren't satisfied with the consequences. They are refusing to send Mia and her younger brother back to KinderCare until the teacher is fired. And, they filed a report with Fort Worth police. Though there is little the police can do.

According to The Star-Telegram (http://www.star-telegram.com/2011/11/17/3535006/mom-irate-after-5-year-olds-ears.html), "While the Texas Health and Safety Code prohibits body piercings on children younger than 18 without the consent of a parent or guardian, the law does not apply to earlobe piercings."

Not all parents think the mishap is such a big deal, however. Cassie Rhudy, whose 16-month-old daughter attends the same day care, is one of them. She told NBC DFW (http://www.nbcdfw.com/news/local/Childs-Ears-Pierced-at-Day-Care-Without-Mothers-Permission-134143868.html):

"You know, when we look at today's society and we look at all the harm that's done to children, in comparison, it's nothing really."Shawna Cohen over at Mommyish (http://mommyish.com/stuff/5-year-old-girl-gets-ears-pierced-at-daycare-710/) questions this line of thinking though. "There's also the whole safety issue to consider, too. That's what would freak me out the most. As in, did this brilliant teacher bother to sterilize the needle before using it (and what was she doing with needles, anyway)?'

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/21/ears-pierced-daycare_n_1105207.html
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/21/ears-pierced-daycare_n_1105207.html

Dogman
21st November 2011, 04:19 PM
I would see them in court so fast their eyeballs would rattle!

ximmy
21st November 2011, 04:33 PM
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Not all parents think the mishap is such a big deal, however. Cassie Rhudy, whose 16-month-old daughter attends the same day care, is one of them. She told NBC DFW (http://www.nbcdfw.com/news/local/Childs-Ears-Pierced-at-Day-Care-Without-Mothers-Permission-134143868.html):[INDENT]"You know, when we look at today's society and we look at all the harm that's done to children, in comparison, it's nothing really."

clitoral piercings are next on order of business... it's nothing really... ::)

sunshine05
21st November 2011, 04:39 PM
I don't even know what to say. First of all, a daycare facility should NOT be doing piercings, that goes w/o saying. But to not even bother to call the parents and get permission is beyond irresponsible. I sensed early on that when you take your child to school (even daycare) they act like they own your child. The public school is big-time like this.

And what's worse is other parents sticking up for them with "oh, there are worse things". No. This is unacceptable, period.

osoab
21st November 2011, 04:40 PM
clitoral piercings are next on order of business... it's nothing really... ::)

skipping the navel?

Buddha
21st November 2011, 04:45 PM
One has to get consent to do anything with their children, but others can do what they to a persons child with out it.

joboo
21st November 2011, 04:52 PM
It was done to match the kids tatoo's.

Glass
21st November 2011, 04:56 PM
Some mothers can't wait to get their little dolly's ears pierced so what's the big deal?

Those parents are already pushing this through the wrong chanels and this won't go anywhere. This is common law assault and should be prosecuted as such. That would 100% shut this day care place down. As it stands nothing will happen because the system will misdirect through internal arbitration then condone the behaviour. Result..... someone called Scott Free.

Hey I might change my name.... ok copyright 2011 Scott Free. Maybe I can team up with Will Power and Max Headroom. We can be bankers.

vacuum
21st November 2011, 05:20 PM
Some mothers can't wait to get their little dolly's ears pierced so what's the big deal?

Those parents are already pushing this through the wrong chanels and this won't go anywhere. This is common law assault and should be prosecuted as such. That would 100% shut this day care place down. As it stands nothing will happen because the system will misdirect through internal arbitration then condone the behaviour. Result..... someone called Scott Free.

Hey I might change my name.... ok copyright 2011 Scott Free. Maybe I can team up with Will Power and Max Headroom. We can be bankers.
Yup assault. And I sure hope that they had everything sterilized and checked out, because you can't just be puncturing people's skin without ensuring they don't get some disease.

zap
21st November 2011, 05:32 PM
Cardenas, a great-aunt who is officially adopting Mia and her 6-year-old brother today as part of Tarrant County's celebration of National Adoption Day, said Mia had previously had each ear double-pierced by her biological mother but had stopped wearing earrings about two years ago, causing the holes to close

Read more: http://www.star-telegram.com/2011/11/17/3535006/mom-irate-after-5-year-olds-ears.html#ixzz1eOCdqPrH

Its totally wrong what they did, they need to keep their hands off our kids.

That being said, I am surprised the aunt didn't have the little girl wearing earrings already, I don't know if the gal was mexican,(name sounds like it) but most of them pierce baby girls ears soon after birth. (oh there it is, her ears had already been double pierced once)

I got mine done at 10 or 11 my choice and I didn't pierce my daughters ears either it will be her choice

hoarder
21st November 2011, 06:45 PM
If it's OK to vaccinate children in school or as a prerequisite for attending mandatory public school, then it must be OK to poke a harmless needle in their earlobe.

http://www.schoolvaccinations.com/

midnight rambler
21st November 2011, 07:25 PM
"You know, when we look at today's society and we look at all the harm that's done to children, in comparison, it's nothing really."

Indeed, it's nothing, just the camel's nose under the tent.

Santa
21st November 2011, 07:28 PM
http://i915.photobucket.com/albums/ac358/jackconrad/junk/file-25.jpg

StreetsOfGold
21st November 2011, 07:33 PM
we look at all the harm that's done to children, in comparison, it's nothing really

Therein lies the problem. The more society DEGRADES itself the "comparison" will will appear less serious. I've heard talk now of legalization of CHILD SEX for crying out loud. This should be completely outrageous but because society has put up with queers, dykes and transgendered for so long the next step does not appear AS bad as it is. (exception for most of those on this furum, of course)

Golden
21st November 2011, 07:56 PM
Circumcision is genital mutilation.

Neuro
22nd November 2011, 03:01 AM
If it's OK to vaccinate children in school or as a prerequisite for attending mandatory public school, then it must be OK to poke a harmless needle in their earlobe.

http://www.schoolvaccinations.com/

Yes or force a spear through their foot!

Awoke
22nd November 2011, 05:04 AM
they filed a report with Fort Worth police. Though there is little the police can do.

According to The Star-Telegram (http://www.star-telegram.com/2011/11/17/3535006/mom-irate-after-5-year-olds-ears.html), "While the Texas Health and Safety Code prohibits body piercings on children younger than 18 without the consent of a parent or guardian, the law does not apply to earlobe piercings."


W. T. F?



I mean, I am not a cheerleader for man made laws, but just saying, WTF? Earlobe piercings are not considered Body piercings? Earlobes are not part of your body?

So I guess we could hold that cop down and cut his earlobes off, and there would be no repercussions?

JJ.G0ldD0t
22nd November 2011, 05:25 AM
I would think its to be expected when you hire teens or people like this (http://gold-silver.us/forum/showthread.php?56032-Weird-trends) for the role of child care provider.

dys
22nd November 2011, 11:03 AM
I love how the police claim that there is nothing they can do because there is no law (not true as assault is most certainly a law, but that's another story). Based on that logic why do they arrest people for driving without a license? Infuriating.

dys

Neuro
22nd November 2011, 03:30 PM
I once had an ear pierced, when I was 23. I was selling silver Jewelry with my then Israeli girlfriend in Egypt. I ended up with a rather nasty infection then, which spread from the earlobe and down the neck, nasty boils with lots of puss three weeks later in Cyprus, one of the few times that I have caved in and taken anti-biotics. I guess god punished me immediatelly for my sins then. LOL. But it healed up nicely without a trace or a hole. Never again!

iOWNme
22nd November 2011, 03:38 PM
If i took a very sharp object, and stabbed it into another persons body i would be charged with assault.

File this right in line with the under age girls being able to okay birth control or Gardasil. Can we see a trend here?

Why is people's first reaction to call the Police? (Perceived Mommy and Daddy of the parents)

Because most Americans are domesticated SLAVES.