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General of Darkness
13th August 2012, 09:15 PM
Peace out bitch.

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Helen Gurley Brown (http://topics.nytimes.com/top/reference/timestopics/people/b/helen_gurley_brown/index.html?inline=nyt-per), who as the author of “Sex and the Single Girl” shocked early-1960s America with the news that unmarried women not only had sex but thoroughly enjoyed it — and who as the editor of Cosmopolitan magazine spent the next three decades telling those women precisely how to enjoy it even more — died on Monday in Manhattan. She was 90, though parts of her were considerably younger.

The Hearst Corporation, Cosmopolitan’s publisher, said in a news release that she died at NewYork-Presbyterian/Columbia hospital after a brief stay there. She lived in Manhattan.

As Cosmopolitan’s editor from 1965 until 1997, Ms. Brown was widely credited with being the first to introduce frank discussions of sex into magazines for women. The look of women’s magazines today — a sea of voluptuous models and titillating cover lines — is due in no small part to her influence.


Before she arrived at Cosmopolitan (http://www.cosmopolitan.com/), Ms. Brown had already shaken the collective consciousness with her best-selling book “Sex and the Single Girl.” Published in 1962, the year before Betty Friedan ignited the modern women’s movement with “The Feminine Mystique,” (http://www.nytimes.com/2006/02/05/national/05friedanbox.html) it taught unmarried women how to look their best, have delicious affairs and ultimately bag a man for keeps, all in breathless, aphoristic prose. (Ms. Brown was a former advertising copywriter.)


By turns celebrated and castigated, Ms. Brown was for decades a highly visible, though barely visible, public presence. A tiny, fragile-looking woman who favored big jewelry, fishnet stockings and minidresses till she was well into her 80s, she was a regular guest at society soirees and appeared often on television. At 5 feet 4, she remained a wraithlike hundred pounds throughout her adult life. That weight, she often said, was five pounds above her ideal.


Ms. Brown routinely described herself as a feminist, but whether her work helped or hindered the cause of women’s liberation has been publicly debated for decades. It will doubtless be debated long after her death. What is safe to say is that she was a Janus-headed figure in women’s history, simultaneously progressive and retrogressive in her approach to women’s social roles.


Few magazines have been identified so closely with a single editor as Cosmopolitan was with Ms. Brown. Before she took over, Cosmopolitan, like its competitors, was every inch a postwar product. Its target reader was a married suburbanite, preoccupied with maintaining the perfect figure, raising the perfect child and making the perfect Jell-O salad.


Ms. Brown tossed the children and the Jell-O, though she kept the diet advice with a vengeance. Yes, readers would need to land Mr. Right someday — the magazine left little doubt that he was still every woman’s grail. But in an era in which an unmarried woman was called an old maid at 23, the new Cosmopolitan gave readers license not to settle for settling down with just anyone, and to enjoy the search with blissful abandon for however long it took. Sex as an end in itself was perfectly fine, the magazine assured them. As a means to an end — the right husband, the right career, the right designer labels — it was better still.


In Ms. Brown’s hands, Cosmopolitan anticipated “Sex and the City” (http://www.hbo.com/city/) by three decades.


Gone was the housewife, apron in tow. In her place was That Cosmopolitan Girl (http://www.nytimes.com/1993/01/04/business/the-media-business-advertising-that-cosmopolitan-girl-won-t-be-a-girl-anymore.html), the idealized reader on whom Ms. Brown and her advertisers firmly trained their sights. Unencumbered by husband and children, the Cosmo Girl was self-made, sexual and supremely ambitious, a potent amalgam of Ragged Dick (http://www.authorama.com/ragged-dick-1.html), Sammy Glick (http://www.americanlegends.com/Interviews/what_makes_sammy_run.html) and Holly Golightly (http://www.pbs.org/wnet/americanmasters/episodes/truman-capote/introduction/58/). She looked great, wore fabulous clothes and had an unabashedly good time when those clothes came off.


Forty-three when she took the magazine’s helm, Ms. Brown often described the Cosmo Girl as the young woman she had been — or dreamed of being — 20 years before.

A child of the Ozarks, Helen Marie Gurley was born on Feb. 18, 1922, in Green Forest, Ark., the younger of two daughters of a family of modest means. Her father, Ira, was a schoolteacher, as her mother, the former Cleo Sisco, had been before her marriage.


“I never liked the looks of the life that was programmed for me — ordinary, hillbilly and poor — and I repudiated it from the time I was 7 years old,” Ms. Brown wrote in her book “Having It All” (http://books.google.com/books?id=wnhHsmMgixgC&dq=%22Helen+Gurley+Brown%22%2B%22Having+It+All%22&printsec=frontcover&source=bl&ots=uI0ciaVBtJ&sig=YRn2XlL9m50H6aBHOGCW86LjmRE&hl=en&ei=uZfWSYL0IqbrlQelqu3VDA&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=3) (1982).

When Helen was a baby, Ira Gurley was elected to the state legislature, and the family moved to Little Rock. In 1932, when she was 10, Ira was killed in an elevator accident, leaving her mother depressed and impoverished. In 1937, Mrs. Gurley moved with her daughters to Los Angeles. There, Helen’s older sister, Mary, contracted polio; she spent the rest of her life paralyzed from the waist down and in later years battled alcoholism.


Though Helen was valedictorian of her high school class, she feared she could never transcend her family circumstances. At a time when a young woman’s main chance was to marry well, she felt ill equipped. She did not consider herself pretty, she wrote years afterward, and had rampant, intractable acne. In “Having It All,” she coined the word “mouseburger” to describe young women like her. [mouseburger, n., pejorative, < mouse + -burger. A physically unprepossessing woman with little money and few prospects. Cf. milquetoast, said of men].


Helen Gurley persevered. She studied briefly at Texas State College for Women (it is now Texas Women’s University (http://www.twu.edu/administration/brief-history.asp)), but with no money to continue, she returned to Los Angeles and enrolled in secretarial school, from which she graduated in 1941.


Around this time she had a short, inadvertent career as an escort. At 19, as Ms. Brown recounted in her memoir “I’m Wild Again” (http://books.google.com/books?id=4CzT815IiPEC&dq=%22Helen+Gurley+Brown%22%2B%22I%E2%80%99m+Wild+ Again%22&printsec=frontcover&source=bl&ots=7mDJ03aqQK&sig=qaxTFi-vL2_V9jYiTNWF98MoJlk&hl=en&ei=WZjWSbzELorrlQfW9pnZDA&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=1) (2000), she answered a newspaper advertisement seeking young women for “social evenings.” She needed to support her mother and sister: What could be simpler, she reasoned, than earning $5 for going on a date? On her first outing, she and her gentleman caller parked and kissed a bit before the full extent of her responsibilities dawned on her. She fled with her $5 and her virtue.


She went on to hold a string of secretarial jobs — 17 by her own count — and discovered the measure of security that sex could bring. At every office, or so it seemed, there were bosses eager to fondle and dandle. (http://www.allmusicals.com/lyrics/howtosucceedinbusinesswithoutreallytrying/asecretaryisnotatoy.htm) In exchange, there might be a fur or an apartment or the wherewithal to keep her family going.


Helen Gurley eventually became an advertising copywriter in Los Angeles, first with Foote, Cone & Belding and later with Kenyon & Eckhardt. In 1959 she married David Brown, (http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0113360/) a former managing editor of

Cosmopolitan who had become a Hollywood producer. “I look after him like a geisha girl,” she told The New York Times in 1970.


Mr. Brown, who produced “Jaws” and other well-known films, died in 2010; the couple had no children. Ms. Brown’s sister, Mary Gurley Alford, died before her.


This year Ms. Brown gave $30 million to Columbia and Stanford Universities, both of which Mr. Brown had attended, to create the David and Helen Gurley Brown Institute for Media Innovation.

In the early 1960s, Ms. Brown found herself at loose ends and cast about for a project. Her husband, who had recently stumbled on a cache of letters she had written in her 20s to a married man who was smitten with her, persuaded her to write “Sex and the Single Girl.”


Though the book seems almost quaint today (“An affair can last from one night to forever”), it caused a sensation when it was published in 1962 by Bernard Geis Associates. It sold millions of copies, turned Ms. Brown into a household name and inspired a movie of the same title (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0058580/) starring Natalie Wood, released in 1964.


In 1963, the Browns moved to New York. Two years later, the Hearst Corporation asked Ms. Brown to take over Cosmopolitan, one of its less prepossessing magazines. Becalmed in the doldrums, Cosmopolitan favored articles on home and hearth, along with uplifting discussions of current affairs (“The Lyndon Johnson Only His Family Knows”).


Ms. Brown had never held an editing job, but her influence on Cosmopolitan was swift and certain: she did not so much revamp the magazine as vamp it.

Where just months earlier Cosmo’s covers had featured photos of demure, high-collared girl-next-door types like Mary Tyler Moore, Ms. Brown’s first issue, July 1965, showed a voluptuous blond model whose deep cleavage was barely contained by her plunging neckline.


What Cosmopolitan’s previous cover lines had lacked in pith and punch (“Diabetes: Will Your Children Inherit It?”), Ms. Brown’s more than made up for. “World’s Greatest Lover — What it was like to be wooed by him!” her inaugural cover proclaimed. Ms. Brown was not shy about disclosing the fact that in her 32 years with the magazine, her husband wrote all the cover lines.


Readers and advertisers flocked to the new Cosmo. When Ms. Brown took over, the magazine had a circulation of less than 800,000; at its height, in the 1980s, circulation approached three million.

Ms. Brown’s magazine did not find favor with everyone. In 1970, a group of feminists led by Kate Millett staged a sit-in at Ms. Brown’s office, protesting what they saw as her retrograde vision of womanhood. Even several nude male centerfolds (Burt Reynolds, April 1972; Arnold Schwarzenegger, August 1977) were for many critics insufficient counterweights.


But in retrospect, Ms. Brown’s work seems strikingly apolitical, beholden mostly to the politics of personal advancement. (In “Having It All,” she compares herself, favorably, to Eva Peron.) The advice she offered Cosmopolitan’s readers on winning the right friends and influencing the right people was squarely in the tradition of Dale Carnegie, if less vertically inclined.


Ms. Brown was declared a living landmark by the New York Landmarks Conservancy, (http://www.nylandmarks.org/) a private nonprofit organization, in 1995. Like many landmarks, she had much restoration work done, which she spoke of candidly: a nose job, breast augmentation, face-lifts, eye lifts and injections of silicone and fat into her face to keep wrinkles at bay, among other procedures.


But while she could offset the physical tolls of aging, Ms. Brown could not always keep pace with changing times. She drew wide criticism for publishing an article in the January 1988 issue of Cosmopolitan that played down the risk of AIDS for heterosexual women. In the 1990s, when prominent men like Justice Clarence Thomas and Senator Robert Packwood were facing accusations of sexual harassment, Ms. Brown publicly disdained the charges, arguing that sexual attention from men is almost always flattering. Her remarks angered many feminists.


In 1996, with circulation declining and the perception that Ms. Brown had lost touch with her readers growing, Hearst announced that she would step down the next year as editor in chief. Ms. Brown’s last issue was February 1997; she was succeeded by Bonnie Fuller, the founding editor of the American edition of Marie Claire (http://www.marieclaire.com/) magazine.


Ms. Brown stayed on as the editor of Cosmopolitan’s international editions, continuing to work from an office appointed with pink silk walls, leopard-print carpet and a cushion embroidered with the maxim “Good Girls Go to Heaven/Bad Girls Go Everywhere.”


A biography of Ms. Brown, “Bad Girls Go Everywhere,” (http://www.oup.com/us/catalog/general/subject/HistoryOther/CulturalHistory/?view=usa&ci=9780195342055) by Jennifer Scanlon, was published by Oxford University Press in 2009.


Ms. Brown’s other books include “Sex and the Office” (1964), “Helen Gurley Brown’s Single Girl’s Cookbook” (1969) and “Sex and the New Single Girl” (1970), all published by Bernard Geis. In 1993, William Morrow published “The Late Show,” (http://www.nytimes.com/1993/04/01/garden/on-tour-with-helen-gurley-brown-go-ahead-say-it-sex-and-the-senior-woman.html?pagewanted=all) Ms. Brown’s advice book for women over 50, in which she suggests that as women age and the supply of available men dwindles, they should simply appropriate their friends’ husbands for jaunty recreational sex.


Perhaps none of these things — not the books, not the unabashed look of Cosmopolitan and its legion of imitators, not the giddy pleasure with which American women embraced sex without shame — would have happened quite as soon if Ms. Brown had heeded a single piece of advice. In 1962, just before “Sex and the Single Girl” was due to be published, she received a telegram from her mother. In an interview with CNN in 1998, Ms. Brown recalled its contents.


“dear helen,” it read. “if you move very quickly, i think we can stop publication of the book.”

midnight rambler
13th August 2012, 09:23 PM
Time to pop open a beer in celebration.

Old Herb Lady
13th August 2012, 09:31 PM
another hardcore feminist jew that ruined the minds of young women.
sorry no direspect for the dead---I don't like feminist jews while their alive either tho

Twisted Titan
13th August 2012, 10:59 PM
Keep the seat hot for Gloria Steniem

old steel
14th August 2012, 12:35 AM
No more boom boom for this Baby-San.

Cebu_4_2
14th August 2012, 12:37 AM
Whats wrong with whores anyways? They just want sex, ill shut up on this one.

ShortJohnSilver
14th August 2012, 01:32 AM
Never had kids ... sorry to insult any female GSUSers but there seems to be a correlation between not having kids or a maternal instinct, and being a feminist whore.

PatColo
14th August 2012, 03:26 AM
another hardcore feminist jew that ruined the minds of young women.
sorry no direspect for the dead---I don't like feminist jews while their alive either tho

I looked at her wiki http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Helen_Gurley_Brown trying to determine if she's joosh, but no word there. As to "feminist", I guess there's 2 strands:

"throw your legs in the air, live it up, use your feminine wiles/power to reel in a man" (HGBrown)

"men are evil, paternal injustices must end, attention from men is undesireable, stay away, go gay!" (militant strand IE the ones who protested HGB's pro-promiscuity articles)

^ both strands have the common thread of keeping women single longer, delaying reproduction. But they seem to be at odds? is there a common joosh thread? Word is "Ms. Magazine" was a CIA spawned rag.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NN05DHO9bJw

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NN05DHO9bJw

Old Herb Lady
14th August 2012, 08:08 AM
I looked at her wiki http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Helen_Gurley_Brown trying to determine if she's joosh, but no word there.





Ok, Pat, I stand corrected then:

another hardcore feminist wanna-be-tool-of-the-talmudic-jews then. (She made them PROUD !)

So sowwy.

I'll try to be more polite next time.

;D

Quote of hers:
"You can have your titular recognition. I'll take money and power. "

PatColo
14th August 2012, 08:15 AM
^ which flavor of "feminism" do you think djoosh TPB would prefer to socially engineer?


"throw your legs in the air, live it up, use your feminine wiles/power to reel in a man" (HGBrown)

"men are evil, paternal injustices must end, attention from men is undesireable, stay away, go gay!" (militant strand IE the ones who protested HGB's pro-promiscuity articles)

^ both strands have the common thread of keeping women single longer, delaying reproduction. But they seem to be at odds? is there a common joosh thread? Word is "Ms. Magazine" was a CIA spawned rag.

the latter "militant" brand would seem more effective at alienating men from women.

Old Herb Lady
14th August 2012, 08:59 AM
^ which flavor of "feminism" do you think djoosh TPB would prefer to socially engineer?



the latter "militant" brand would seem more effective at alienating men from women.

The two extremes in feminism still spew the same result: HATE

They prefer the first kind....like the woman in the OP.

She/they only believe in control over the males through their sexuality.....
when you have time go to the female liberation thread in the ladies forum.....
Its been discussed before.

feminism isnt about woman power it's about evil power using the woman as a pawn.

theres no femininity in feminism , but THEY make women think/believe that because they're a woman
that they have to have control/power over men so that they can take over the world,
which make men mean and hateful so they can fight more....more hate....
more war....if women knew their femininity they would be able to generate peace to their men
not hate.

They have trained all these young women to be the opposite of feminine through
every possible media outlet there is.

slowbell
14th August 2012, 09:13 AM
Never had kids ... sorry to insult any female GSUSers but there seems to be a correlation between not having kids or a maternal instinct, and being a feminist whore.

I noticed that too, ShortJohnSilver. Feminism actually started in the beginning trying to show the world that not all women need to be homemakers, or raise a family, but could aspire to other things if they should want to. I agree with that, somewhere along the way feminism morphed into complete man bashing, bashing families, and just miserable women who just want to take as much as they can get their greedy hands on.

It sounds like this lady may have associated with the true form of feminism, not the evolution. Not the term "feminist" we cringe at today, when hearing the word. Her bio sounds like she's lived a full life.

chad
14th August 2012, 09:19 AM
I noticed that too, ShortJohnSilver. Feminism actually started in the beginning trying to show the world that not all women need to be homemakers, or raise a family, but could aspire to other things if they should want to. I agree with that, somewhere along the way feminism morphed into complete man bashing, bashing families, and just miserable women who just want to take as much as they can get their greedy hands on.

It sounds like this lady may have associated with the true form of feminism, not the evolution. Not the term "feminist" we cringe at today, when hearing the word. Her bio sounds like she's lived a full life.

it all went downhill when lesbians found out about it.

beefsteak
14th August 2012, 09:37 AM
Korbin, that is one of the MOST DISTASTEFUL speaking of the dead statements I've ever run across many many decades on this big blue marble.

There are ladies on this forum, as well as GENTLEMEN on this forum.

Can you not provide at least a modicum of decorum and neighborly awareness while you exercise your "free speech" amongst us? Perhaps you need reminding that your freedom of speech stops at other's earshot, such as my and dear Helen's eardrums! GS is not some personal lockeroom where your obviously guttermouth is considered hilarious and in constant demand.

aurally assaulted beefsteak

Old Herb Lady
14th August 2012, 09:49 AM
OMG ! Stick in some earplugs then ! That was mild considering some of the awful posts that are truly distasteful !

You must not be reading enough on here if you think that's extreme ! Wow !

I didn't care for it either....so who cares.....move along !

slowbell
14th August 2012, 09:53 AM
OMG ! Stick in some earplugs then ! That was mild considering some of the awful posts that are truly distasteful !

I tried earplugs once while on the forum, it didn't work. I could still read posts. It did help block out a nagging neighbor though, so that helped.

StreetsOfGold
14th August 2012, 10:04 AM
Luke 16:23 And in hell (s)he lift up his/HER eyes, being in torments,.....

beefsteak
14th August 2012, 10:08 AM
OMG ! Stick in some earplugs then ! That was mild considering some of the awful posts that are truly distasteful !

You must not be reading enough on here if you think that's extreme ! Wow !

I didn't care for it either....so who cares.....move along !

I'll still hold open your doors, OHL as well as offer you my seat when you are standing and wrestling cranky children.

Didn't suspect any of your penchant for rebuffing gentlemen who know how to behave among the living, let alone speak of the dead.

So, to answer your question, I CARE! Who ever thinks raising the bar around here is easily needs to check for fogging their mirror.


"newly bruised shin" beefsteak

Old Herb Lady
14th August 2012, 11:23 AM
Beefsteak, you missed my point. First of all, he wasn't being rude or nasty to anyone on this board, secondly
he was talking "distasteful " as you say about a person who spewed filth for decades, ok.
If you want to celebrate a persons life when they die, you memorialize their love and care and what theyve
done positive to make a lasting influence on people's lives. If a person teaches young, vulnerable girls how to be
nasty, then don't be surprised when somebody says something nasty about a deceased person who did such.

I wasn't sticking up for him, read my post, this place still has a level of freedom, you can't let every post that bothers you
hurt your feelings or upset you ..... I get sicker than you when I read some of the stuff that people say....
just move along.....THAT'S WHAT I WAS SAYING. Just chill out.

If you need to understand the issue at hand, feminism, maybe go read some of her filth and then come back and post how you feel about that.

If he would have stuck up for her, now that would be distasteful and filthy.

you just do not understand how I feel about feminism, so please do not insinuate that i
am part of lowering the bar around here.

Sorry about your shins, it is not meant the way you took it,

The older I get, the more I know that you cannot please everyone all of the time,
so I quit trying.

mick silver
14th August 2012, 11:28 AM
now now old herb lady pleasing people is a good thing , is that not what she telling us all ?

beefsteak
14th August 2012, 12:05 PM
Thoughtful rules of personal conduct based upon good upbringing has NOTHING to do with "pleasing people" and EVERYTHING to do with loving one's neighbor and harmonious living with other densely packed humans in this crazy world where supposedly anything goes, and the V Generation is busy being congratulated for blowing up people using armed drones from college dorm rooms continents away as a "part time job" for the US military, for just one unneighborly example.

Tis my belief you MISSED MY POINT --offered as a counterpoint, albeit modeled on personal public graces' exampled behaviors, OHL---NOT the 'thuther way 'round...

So, do you want my seat on the bus or not? No reason I can see for both of us to stand and said vacated seat be surreptitiously occupied by another boorish, uncouth, and guttermouthed (God forbid) GS male.


beefsteak

Korbin Dallas
14th August 2012, 12:33 PM
Korbin, that is one of the MOST DISTASTEFUL speaking of the dead statements I've ever run across many many decades on this big blue marble.

There are ladies on this forum, as well as GENTLEMEN on this forum.

Can you not provide at least a modicum of decorum and neighborly awareness while you exercise your "free speech" amongst us? Perhaps you need reminding that your freedom of speech stops at other's earshot, such as my and dear Helen's eardrums! GS is not some personal lockeroom where your obviously guttermouth is considered hilarious and in constant demand.

aurally assaulted beefsteak

Lighten up, Francis,

Is the word "vagina" guttermouth? I guess calling a dead person a whore is within your boundaries of decorum, but the "v" word offends you. Sorry, I don't have respect for someone who spent their life telling women to degrade themselves and be promiscuous. I don't see how referring to her lifetime behaviour leading to a part of her anatomy falling off would be so offensive.

If you don't like me, ignore me.

Korbin Dallas
14th August 2012, 12:37 PM
Furthermore, beef, I just read through an entire thread on pubic hair, and I didn't see your response to posts and photos which, by your standards would be "boorish, uncouth and guttermouthed.

Once again, if you don't like me, ignore me.

Old Herb Lady
14th August 2012, 04:37 PM
now now old herb lady pleasing people is a good thing , is that not what she telling us all ?


If you believe what a narcissist tells you. She wasn't teaching grown women how to be nice to please a man, she was teaching teenagers through her books & smut magazine how to steal lipstick & nail polish, how to LIE, use their sexuality to get what they want, how to go to work at the office and find married men to have affairs with , telling young girls not to eat, but drink wine instead to keep a trim figure, i think she taught something about women liked to be semi raped or something like that.
She was just like that show Sex and the City. Nasty !


Helen Gurley Brown Put Women In Bondage And Oppression


Posted on August 14, 2012 (http://michiganconservatives.net/?p=2652)
Much is being made of Helen Gurley Brown since she died. She’s being praised as this woman who set women free, and liberated them, because of her views on sex in Cosmo magazine.
We need to set the record straight on Helen Gurley Brown and the sexual revolution.

Helen Gurley Brown did not set women free and liberate them. Brown is guilty of putting women in bondage and oppression.
The fruits of the ‘sexual revolution’ are nothing to be praised. Let me preface what I’m about to say with, “Things before the ‘sexual revolution’ were NOT 100% perfect. They were surely better than what happened after the ‘sexual revolution’.”
The sexual revolution has been a destructive force in our culture. It’s lead to a selfish mentality toward sex, that has cheapened it. This cheapening of sex has lead to a laundry list of societal evils.
We’re now teaching children how to put on condoms. How is that progress?
Children now have to have access to birth control and abortion services? Please tell me why that is freedom?

The rate of STDs and unwed teen pregnancies increased vastly. This is bondage and oppression, not liberation and freedom.
Cheapening of sex has lead to shallow relationships, which lead to weak marriages and broken homes. Once again, this is progress?
Overall, Brown cheapened a very powerful thing. She cheapened sex. When you cheapen sex you release waves of negative societal consequences.
Brown should not be celebrated. She is a blight on history that we should all learn from. She teaches us the things we should avoid.








Helen Gurley Brown: Hugh Hefner and Erica Jong Remember Her Life and Work

4:00 AM PDT 8/14/2012 by Andy Lewis




http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/sites/default/files/2012/08/jonghef.jpg



The Playboy founder and the "Fear of Flying" author recall the work of the legendary Cosmo editor, who died Aug. 13 at age 90.

Helen Gurley Brown, the pioneering author of Sex and the Single Girl, the 1962 book which scandalized America with its stories of women having sex before marriage, and the founder of Cosmo magazine, died Monday at age 90.

Two of her friends, who also helped change America’s view of sex, talked with The Hollywood Reporter about the influence of her life and work.
Hugh Hefner founded Playboy magazine in 1953, spurring on the sexual revolution. Erica Jong coined the term “zipless f---” in Fear of Flying, her controversial 1973 novel about sex and relationships, and went on to become one of America’s most noted writers about sex.
Hugh Hefner
What is not well known is that, after she wrote Sex and the Single Girl, Helen approached me about coming to work for me. She wanted to do a female version of Playboy.
It was the early 1960s and I had just started the first Playboy Club and a magazine, Show Business Illustrated, which was not doing well, and I was not at the point where I felt I could take on another magazine title. So she approached Hearst and they hired her to turn Cosmopolitan into a version of Playboy. In the early days, they even had a little symbol like our bunny, a pussycat that appeared at the end of every article. In a parody tribute to Playboy, she even did a nude [April 1972] centerfold with Burt Reynolds.
I helped her find writers and agents so that she knew who the players were and how much a writer could expect to be paid. We became good, professional friends, but mainly through mail and the Internet. But we didn’t run in the same circles, so I don’t know the intimate details of her life.
When she founded Cosmo, her views on sexuality and the sexual behavior of unmarried women were radical and the same as mine. In terms of male and female relationships, our philosophy was very similar.
[As to her notion that older women should have affairs with their friends’ husbands:] I don’t think that a very good idea — unless it’s something they have all agreed to. The immorality in infidelity is in the cheating. People can live lives in a variety of ways; it is the lying that is immoral, not the sex.
I last heard from her less than year ago; she responded in a very positive way to a documentary done on me by Brigitte Berman, Hugh Hefner: Playboy, Activist and Rebel. She sent me a letter to say how pleased she was because it reflected the other side of what I am all about.
She was on the side of the more enlightened women. She became a voice for the other side of the women’s movement and I thought that very, very important.
- As told to Stephen Galloway
Erica Jong
I had a very interesting experience today when I heard she died. I started tweeting quotes from her. The first I tweeted was, “’Don’t use men to get what you want in life, get it yourself.’ My favorite quote from Helen Gurley Brown,” and it released this deluge of retweets.
Then I tweeted, “Nearly every glamorous, wealthy, successful career woman you might envy started out as a schlep” and then another deluge started. I was just honoring her by putting my favorite quotes of her on Twitter. I got such a big kick out of the fact that a lot of women who were too young to know who she really was just piled on and kept retweeting. I then tweeted, “I guess if you’re retweeted you’re not dead.”
When we she published Sex and the Single Girl (1962) people were shocked that a single girl could have sex. The title itself was a shocker. Even if we single girls had sex, we weren’t supposed to admit it.
She was always very kind to me and nurturing. She really understood that mentoring younger writers was feminism. She read Fear of Flying and loved it.
I knew she had been very trashed when Sex and the Single Girl came out. All women who do provocative things are trashed. Always. So she made a special effort when she saw me getting the same treatment for Fear of Flying to be nurturing. She identified with me, and I was moved by that. I didn’t have many women mentors. Mostly my mentors were men like Henry Miller and John Updike.
Many women were threatened by my work, which she was not, which is why I think she taught me that mentoring was feminist. She really understood that mentoring younger writers was feminism.
She was interested in women and sexuality and women and independence. And, of course, sexuality and independence go together. Throughout history, the greatest lovers have also been the greatest feminists. She didn’t see any opposition between feminism and men and in that we agreed. She didn’t believe you needed to trash men to be a feminist. In fact she was a lover of men, as am I. That was the bond. That was what she wanted me write about. That was her vision.
She made our hook-up culture possible, or at least Cosmo did, which was completely her vision and to some extent her husband David Brown’s. He wrote the cover lines. She believed in ferocious independence for women and that independence included a satisfying sex life and orgasms. So I think many women too young to know who she was have absorbed her lessons. She did change the culture. No doubt about it.
- As told to Andy Lewis

http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/helen-gurley-brown-death-hefner-jong-remember-361621


helen gurley brown:
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http://www.usmagazine.com/uploads/assets/articles/55081-former-cosmopolitan-editor-helen-gurley-brown-dies-at-90/1344887583_helen-gurley-brown-article.jpg

http://blogs-images.forbes.com/deborahljacobs/files/2012/08/0813_helen-gurley-brown2_416x416.jpg

http://i.usatoday.net/life/_photos/2011/08/02/Helen-Gurley-Brown-Sexy-trailblazer-NR22GE8A-x-large.jpg


The female version of Hugh Hefner
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She tells the young girls to have lots & lots & lotsa sex with anybody they want even if it
could ruin careers at their office she says.
http://i295.photobucket.com/albums/mm150/lovenetta/Sexandthesinglegirl1.jpg

PatColo
15th August 2012, 11:17 AM
makow has spoken

Helen Gurley Brown: Mentoring Whores (http://www.henrymakow.com/130103.html)

Gaillo
15th August 2012, 02:01 PM
The article forgot to mention that she is going to be buried next to her vagina, which died and fell off 25 years ago.

Pretty tasteless, dude.