WARNING! Guys: Do NOT date a girl with kid(s)

[old steel]

"Your life will become complete HELL on Earth. I was dating one with a kid from a previous marriage and she is completely INSANE. I've tried breaking up with her but she comes over to my house and bangs on the door until I answer. I finally had enough of this horseshit and had to call the cops and file a retraining order. She's since created a Facebook page and other online profiles of me stating I have diseases, am gay, a child molester etc. She's threatened me by saying she'll kill me, my family and anyone close to be in the future if I break up with her. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. This bitch is a NIGHTMARE! I just want a normal girl to spend time with and not be afraid of her stabbing me in the back when I'm not looking."


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[Cebu_4_2]

My first ex was a complete psycho, took many many years for her to finally get meds. Her whole goal on earth was to completely ruin me, which she did only financially. Been with many american women, never did find a normal one that could be trusted.

[Hitch]

"Your life will become complete HELL on Earth. I was dating one with a kid from a previous marriage and she is completely INSANE. I've tried breaking up with her but she comes over to my house and bangs on the door until I answer. I finally had enough of this horseshit and had to call the cops and file a retraining order. She's since created a Facebook page and other online profiles of me stating I have diseases, am gay, a child molester etc. She's threatened me by saying she'll kill me, my family and anyone close to be in the future if I break up with her. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. This bitch is a NIGHTMARE! I just want a normal girl to spend time with and not be afraid of her stabbing me in the back when I'm not looking."



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Jeez, she sounds insane. I don't think the problem is the kid, but her. There's a lot of good women out there with kids. I don't think the kid is a barometer to measure the health of the woman.

I would never contact that woman again, personally. She sounds like a nightmare. Life is too short for that drama.

[hoarder]

I just want a normal girl .....By today's standards, wouldn't you say she is normal?

[zap]

Sounds like you ended up with a batshit crazy crackbaby! Run for the hills and hide!


I am not to crazy, just little bit, and I have a kid. :)

[Ponce]

As much as I "love" kids?...........NO WAY JOSE.

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[Horn]

I am not to crazy, just little bit, and I have a kid. :)

I remember reading somewhere that the mother ends up losing a portion of overall grey matter with each successive child...

[collector]

The Amerikan culture produces many of those women. Look at the teepee programing, the most popular sitcoms and reality shows are the ones with totally dysfunctional households. Men suck, women rule and the kids are the smart ones - destroying the family unit, creating chaos while the gov't teaches the kids that global government is good and they should turn in their parents to law enforcement if they own a gun.
I agree with Hitch in that it's probably not the kid, but maybe there's a lot that you didn't post about the relationship. The hardest thing to deal with when you're a single guy and the woman has a kid, is that the kid is her first priority. You're supposed to make her your first priority while she makes the kid hers. It takes a lot of sacrifice on your part and she'd better be really special if you're going to enter into that kind of relationship. Of course if she's a good mom and the kid is cool and raised well, then it might be a good fit but I can say from my experience, there's a lot of wacked out women out there that shouldn't even own pets, let alone be raising kids. Asian women seem to be pretty respectful and old school, as long as they haven't been too Amerikanized.

In regards to the psycho chick - get her saying that shit on tape or text and bring it to the cops - they'll pay her a visit and it should stop. As far as the Facebook page - notify Facebook, it'll be taken down. I'd be curious if she's got a profile on PlentyOfFish and see if she's looking for someone else, she might just be holding onto you until she finds a new guy. If she is then you can call her on it and it takes the whole "I won't live without you" crap off the table - it'll out her as just an angry, out of control, vindictive psycho.

[EE_]

when you're a single guy and the woman has a kid, that the kid is her first priority. You're supposed to make her your first priority while she makes the kid hers

This is it in a nutshell. ^
On top of that, you are expected to shower her kid with attention and your money, while she spends her money on her kid too.

As long as every guy understands that you will always be #2, you'll be fine.

[Norweger]

Not entirely true though. There are lots of examples of women neglecting their kids when they go into a new relationship. They don't always put their children first. If they put their children first they would be with the children's biological father.

In general i think we all can agree that traditional family values are the best... and that modern "liberated" women are a menace to society.

[EE_]

Not entirely true though. There are lots of examples of women neglecting their kids when they go into a new relationship. They don't always put their children first. If they put their children first they would be with the children's biological father.

I don't think that's true either, those women you've described that neglect their children are the worst kind and the most selfish. They always put themselves first...you are, and always will be #2.

I think the best scenario a guy could hope for, is to be treated equally to her child/children. But you know you're still #2

[Hitch]

I don't think that's true either, those women you've described that neglect their children are the worst kind and the most selfish. They always put themselves first...you are still and always will be #2.

You guys are really optimistic. #2 is an OK spot. Try being #7 or #8, behind her friends, her 3 cats, etc...

[EE_]

You guys are really optimistic. #2 is an OK spot. Try being #7 or #8, behind her friends, her 3 cats, etc...

Yes, #2 is optimum. That's just the way it works.
It beats the hell out of being #3. Where her and the kids come first.

Any guy that's content to be #4 and so on, either has a very rich wife/girlfriend or/and deserves to be!

*Note: being #3 is only acceptable if she has a body that doesn't quit and sex is never held back.

[Ponce]

Once your wife have a kid you become a "supporter" from being a husband......most people tell me "I love the kid that I now have BUT I would never have another one" hahahhahhahahaahh, in reality they don't even want the one that they now have.

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[Carl]

Start a website / facebook page titled:

"This Bitch Be Crazy"

Build a national database with pictures of the crazy bitches, where guys can check to see if their "new date" is listed.

Guys from all over can submit their "crazy bitch" with her qualifying features.

[chud]

Start a website / facebook page titled:

"This Bitch Be Crazy"

Build a national database with pictures of the crazy bitches, where guys can check to see if their "new date" is listed.

Guys from all over can submit their "crazy bitch" with her qualifying features.

Your ideas are intriguing to me and I wish to subscribe to your newsletter.

[steel_ag]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7aYxMuLb3h8

[Cebu_4_2]

Asian women seem to be pretty respectful and old school, as long as they haven't been too Amerikanized.

Ding. Can't find that in amerika no more. I am lucky, if you are close you know my story, if not then you dont.