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mick silver
8th March 2015, 02:03 PM
'Free Range' Parents Found Responsible for Child Neglect After Allowing Kids to Walk Home AloneMar 3, 2015, 5:05 PM ET
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A Maryland (http://abcnews.go.com/topics/news/maryland.htm) couple who was being investigated for allowing their two children to walk home alone from a neighborhood park have been "found responsible for unsubstantiated child neglect" by the state's Child Protective Services.
Maryland Child Protective Services began investigating Danielle and Alexander Meitiv of Silver Spring, Maryland, for practicing so-called “free-range parenting,” a philosophy that encourages children to have some independence.
In the Meitivs' case, this means they allow their two children, Rafi and Dvora, ages 10 and 6, to play outside and walk home by themselves.
The couple told “Nightline” in an email today that they found out the results of the CPS investigation last week.
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Rafi and Dvora Meitiv were walking home from a park recently in Silver Spring, Maryland, when they were picked up by police for being unsupervised.

“We are shocked and outraged that we have been deemed negligent for granting our children the simple freedom to play outdoors. We fully intend to appeal,” Danielle Meitiv said via email. “We also have no intention of changing our parenting approach.”
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The Meitivs told “Nightline” in an interview that aired in January (http://abcnews.go.com/Nightline/video/free-range-parents-letting-kids-roam-28599171) that they trust their children and want to give them the freedom to make mistakes, away from the parental safety net.
“I'm just parenting the way I was parented and the way that almost every adult I know was parented,” Danielle told “Nightline” at the time.
But that all changed after the Montgomery County Police stopped the kids in December as they were walking home from a park without an adult and gave them a stern warning.
Maryland Child Protective Services then accused the Meitivs of neglect, saying unless they committed to a safety plan, the kids would have to go into foster homes. In Silver Spring, leaving anyone under age 18 unsupervised constitutes neglect.
Suddenly this middle-class suburban family found themselves smack in the middle of a national parenting debate.
When asked for comment, Maryland Child Protective Services referred the case to the Maryland State Department (http://abcnews.go.com/topics/news/us/state-department.htm) of Human Resources.
A Maryland State Department of Human Resources spokeswoman said that confidentiality laws prohibits them from commenting on any specific case, and would only say that the ruling would serve as "a point of reference that will be used in any future decision."
No criminal charges have been filed.
The Meitivs stand by their belief that they are the best ones to judge if their kids are ready, and if their neighborhood is safe enough, for them to be on their own, not the government.
“Frankly I think that raising independent children and responsible children and giving them the freedom that i enjoyed is a risk worth taking,” Danielle Meitiv told “Nightline” in a previous interview. “In the end it's our decision as pa



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Hitch
8th March 2015, 03:45 PM
In Silver Spring, leaving anyone under age 18 unsupervised constitutes neglect.

WTF. Seriously, this is insane. A 16 year old kid can be trusted with driving a car, but can't walk home from school? CPS there needs a boot up the ass.

EE_
8th March 2015, 03:52 PM
WTF. Seriously, this is insane. A 16 year old kid can be trusted with driving a car, but can't walk home from school? CPS there needs a boot up the ass.

First thing you have to understand as a parent, they are not your kids! They are the governments kids...you just get to pay for them. So, their kids, their rules!

And people wonder why no one with above average intelligence, is having kids anymore.

midnight rambler
8th March 2015, 05:52 PM
Remember the days when kids older than 7 or 8 would cruise all over creation on their bicycles ALL DAY LONG UNSUPERVISED when school was out? Shiite, we even used to have BB gun wars. And when we were 12-13 we'd ride our motorcycles (or go-carts) all in and around the neighborhood, without DRIVER LICENSES of course.

Glass
8th March 2015, 05:53 PM
was there a hearing? Doesn't seem like there was.

SWRichmond
8th March 2015, 07:15 PM
Well, forgive me, but they should move. Unless they can't because they are living the high income life in some high paying government job or some job working for a government contracting company. And if that is the case, well then you get what you pay for.

Montgomery County MD is the 11th highest-income county in USA.

My sympathy for people who suck the government teat has ended.

BrewTech
8th March 2015, 07:15 PM
was there a hearing? Doesn't seem like there was.

No need. State workers are incapable of poor judgement, or having an agenda other than, in this case, protecting the children.

Glass
8th March 2015, 07:51 PM
Well, forgive me, but they should move. Unless they can't because they are living the high income life in some high paying government job or some job working for a government contracting company. And if that is the case, well then you get what you pay for.

Montgomery County MD is the 11th highest-income county in USA.

My sympathy for people who suck the government teat has ended.

Yes but for these people, it's a wake up moment. They have hit the wall and were a bit surprised. Now they will see how evil it is. I hope they can save their kids. If the CPS get a hold of them they will literally be lost.