Why are Feminists Surprised Their Daughters are Sl#ts?

Thanks,
Horseshoe.

We, her parents, screwed up just one thing raising her. We admitted our agnosticism and never joined a church.


Liquid,


if that same gal slept with a guy in the past after one date. Doesn't that make that guy 'better' than the guy who had to wait a month? The guy she slept with after one date was a better man, a more high value man, who was rewarded sooner, than the other guy.

I'll answer you with what I saw when I was single. I am 47, the first gen of women who grew up post-sexual revolution. I had good morals,but many of my women-acquaintances didn't. They bought the whole baloney.

Here's what I saw: If she slept with a guy after one date, then waited for a month with the next one, it's because the guy she waited with was BETTER. She discovered that sleeping together on the first date is disastrous for a long-term relationship. So the NEXT guy, she waited, and found out that THAT's the way to make love grow.
Sadly, today too many young women are INCAPABLE of love because they have "daddy issues" from feminist mom's poisoning her mind. So bedhopping sounds like fun.

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Originally Posted by shakinginmyshoes

It seems kind of cruel to use as a default assumption that the guy might be a whackjob. Hate to hurt a good guy's feelings by being assuming guilty until he proves his innocence, so to speak, but what can you do?

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Cheers, I wouldn't worry about hurting a guy's feelings, I've never taken it that way personally.

I should add, I have not had good success meeting people online. Women can be crazy too. Last gal I exchanged numbers with, I got busy and didn't call. I guess she took that the wrong way. She called me 5 times in one day, not counting massive text messages...each call got progressively more and more obscene.

Of couse I didn't return her calls, and for about a week after that, I recieved several calls and hang-ups a day. It finally tappered off and I was able to regain my sanity. ;D

I haven't tried online since. I have meet some decent people, but you really do have to be careful out there.

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Originally Posted by shakinginmyshoes

...So where are all the young men who want nice girls?
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I think this line form the article covers that (my underline):

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But one thing that hasn't changed is - men don't marry sluts.

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Who they date is another story all together. Guys will tell themselves the girl's past does not matter UNTIL it comes time to consider marriage.

In Europe many (most?) don't even bother to get married anymore. The institution has been ruined.

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Originally Posted by Book

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Originally Posted by Liquid

I also agree with Chad, at 19 she's just a baby.

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MIT Coeds

Nah...19 is the natural prime age for mating and having children. Women who instead go to college and start their "career" in their prime have basically rejected natural motherhood for promiscuity, debt, and corporate slavery. Then at age 35 they finally try and compete with the younger ripe women for husbands...lol.

:D

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who's that guy in the back on the far right side? lucky sob ;D

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Originally Posted by shakinginmyshoes

Here's what I saw: If she slept with a guy after one date, then waited for a month with the next one, it's because the guy she waited with was BETTER. She discovered that sleeping together on the first date is disastrous for a long-term relationship. So the NEXT guy, she waited, and found out that THAT's the way to make love grow.
Sadly, today too many young women are INCAPABLE of love because they have "daddy issues" from feminist mom's poisoning her mind. So bedhopping sounds like fun.

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Thanks for answering my question, and I agree. I should see it that way, it's a healthy way to look at it.

I think I've been single too long, and have too many really mess-up stories regarding gals I've met and dated...that I honesty have some trust issues with women.

I appreciate your insights, wish more women thought that way. ;)

Liquid,

I wonder about something:

What if, rather than being of the mindset, when will SHE reward YOU with sex, if you took leadership with a lady you've just met and held her at arm's length with a wry smile and said, No, you're going to have to wait.

I can imagine a lot of women getting weak in the knees at such a masterful approach (and it's WHAT she WANTS)

(Something like the movie Love at First Bite where Susan St. James tells George Hamilton, let's have sex. He says, no, I don't have time. She says, just a quickie? He says, For you, no quickies. Only Longies)

Along the mindset that people want what they can't have. A woman who is being DENIED sex with you is going to want you far more.

should add, I have not had good success meeting people online. Women can be crazy too. Last gal I exchanged numbers with, I got busy and didn't call. I guess she took that the wrong way. She called me 5 times in one day, not counting massive text messages...each call got progressively more and more obscene.

YIKES!

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Originally Posted by shakinginmyshoes

Liquid,

I wonder about something:

What if, rather than being of the mindset, when will SHE reward YOU with sex, if you took leadership with a lady you've just met and held her at arm's length with a wry smile and said, No, you're going to have to wait.

I can imagine a lot of women getting weak in the knees at such a masterful approach (and it's WHAT she WANTS)

(Something like the movie Love at First Bite where Susan St. James tells George Hamilton, let's have sex. He says, no, I don't have time. She says, just a quickie? He says, For you, no quickies. Only Longies)

Along the mindset that people want what they can't have. A woman who is being DENIED sex with you is going to want you far more.

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In my experience, telling her she has to earn it is also an effective technique.

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Originally Posted by goldmonkey

In my experience, telling her she has to earn it is also an effective technique.

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My experience has been different.

That's actually what I usually do, and try and take things slow.

However, I'll tell ya, life is not like the movies. Maybe it's just been my experience. I usually try to take things slow, yet a lot women are so programmed that the greatest thing they can offer men is sex...even an flirty let down like that in the movies is not taken very well. They either assume something is wrong with the guy, or their own insecurities show and they think something is wrong with themselves, or they tend to turn their emotions more towards friendship, etc. IE, the "nice guy" syndrome.

It's expected of men to pursue sex as soon as possible these days. If a man doesn't, he must not be interested.

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Originally Posted by shakinginmyshoes

"You are Phoenix's wife, aren't you?"

Heh.

I agree with much of what he says, but no.

My husband doesn't post on the internet too much. He's too busy running his business. *I* have time to post because what I do, I'm self -employed too, with a home business, (lactation consultant) but my work tends to come in spurts. (Pardon the pun. "Spurts." Mother's milk spurts... heh heh..er...ahem. Sorry)

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Haha, I figured you'd say that (about him not being your husband, but that you agree with him).

Anyway, I was just wondering.... (hehe, I like puns too ;) )