Why are Feminists Surprised Their Daughters are Sl#ts?

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Originally Posted by Liquid

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Originally Posted by Book

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Her hunt for a husband must be done in person. Face to face. Eye to eye. Men fall in love with their eyes...women with their ears. No way getting around this fundamental truth. She must go to the Man Hunting Ground in person...wherever that is...lol.

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LOL, indeed Book. The sooty grouse method is how a lot of dudes put on an act to impress women.

Wise advise though, however you can use online to meet people face to face. I've done that before. The best method seems to use online to first talk to someone over the phone. Then meet them face to face in a public setting, coffee shops are perfect. I've met a few gals that way, and it made them comfortable that I wasn't some crazy predator. I don't prefer to meet people online, but it can be used if done wisely.

I also agree with Chad, at 19 she's just a baby.

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While she's not really a "baby", I tend to agree too.

If, as was posted, she's actively seeking a future mate out of loneliness, she's doing it for the wrong reason. What she needs is to know how to survive herself, in a sustainable manner.
By doing the former, she's facing far less than a 50% chance of success. So she better know how to be able to survive on her own, as there will be a big chance that she'll have to at some point in her life.

The alternative is that years from now she may feel trapped in what became a bad relationship, but chooses to stay out of dependency.
....or she ends up back at home, or bouncing from guy to guy.


IMHO, a strong woman who knows herself how to survive by living a sustainable lifestyle is far more attractive than one that isn't.

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Originally Posted by shakinginmyshoes

Thanks,
Horseshoe.

We, her parents, screwed up just one thing raising her. We admitted our agnosticism and never joined a church.


Liquid,


if that same gal slept with a guy in the past after one date. Doesn't that make that guy 'better' than the guy who had to wait a month? The guy she slept with after one date was a better man, a more high value man, who was rewarded sooner, than the other guy.

I'll answer you with what I saw when I was single. I am 47, the first gen of women who grew up post-sexual revolution. I had good morals,but many of my women-acquaintances didn't. They bought the whole baloney.

Here's what I saw: If she slept with a guy after one date, then waited for a month with the next one, it's because the guy she waited with was BETTER. She discovered that sleeping together on the first date is disastrous for a long-term relationship. So the NEXT guy, she waited, and found out that THAT's the way to make love grow.
Sadly, today too many young women are INCAPABLE of love because they have "daddy issues" from feminist mom's poisoning her mind. So bedhopping sounds like fun.

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I am thanking this post, with an emphasis on one month being the threshold. LOL

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Originally Posted by AndreaGail

there's a word for these girls in college...sorostitutes

I can't even stand next to most of these girls because of how many chemicals these girls drench themselves in to smell "pretty". It is absolutely disgusting!

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But man, they can look good at a distance!

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Attacked from all angles. I feel for women of today.

Many Girls Now Begin Puberty at Age 7, 8

I think my biggest rant on feminism can be summed up on what I heard on the radio yesterday morning..

DJ had a young gal on the phone, and she was professing her love to some famous pop star. DJ said, "you know that guy goes out with a whole bunch of women, do you want to share him with other women?"

Her honest answer was "yes, I would share him with other women".

An old friend once told me, "women would rather share a successful man, then be with a faithful loser."

So what is successful? Tiger Woods is another perfect example of this, success if fame, wealth...impressing other people. He had his choice of women, and lost his marriage because of it.

Wilt Chamberlain, the basketball player, casually slept with 20,000 women. There's 20,000 women, right there, that display this social convention.

We can go on and on with examples of this.

Feminism created a system where men jump through hoops trying to impress women, and women use their bodies as a reward for this.

That same friend above, also told me you need to impress women. Another quote from him, "Treating women with respect does not impress them. Treat them like little girls, that's charm. Make them giggle."

This guy would go out every weekend and pickup a different gal every night.

I think one of the reasons I'm single, is that the last 10 +gals I've met. I lost interest in them after the 3rd date. I felt like I had to impress them. I then lost respect for them, even though they may have been good gals.

Fortunately, I'm very happy being single. I've lost the sense of needing to impress other people. I like to fly under the radar. The things I respect I don't have to impress. Weigts at the gym, the weights never lie, they are constant. My job, I have the perfect career for myself, I can work hard and that is respected. We don't get praise at work, but we don't get hastled either. I won't get rich or impress others..but that's OK.

And that's the constant battle with trying to get into the dating game. The trade off of values. Do we have to trade off our values to impress other people? Do I set goals in life towards impressing others?

My values are humble ones, not impressive. I treat folks with a smile and respect. I believe humilty is a virtue, and to treat others as I would like to be treated. I don't like attention from other people, but I enjoy their company.

Anyway, sorry for the rant. When I think of the hastles of dating gals, it's just a big arrggh. :(

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Originally Posted by Liquid

I think my biggest rant on feminism can be summed up on what I heard on the radio yesterday morning..

DJ had a young gal on the phone, and she was professing her love to some famous pop star. DJ said, "you know that guy goes out with a whole bunch of women, do you want to share him with other women?"

Her honest answer was "yes, I would share him with other women".

An old friend once told me, "women would rather share a successful man, then be with a faithful loser."

So what is successful? Tiger Woods is another perfect example of this, success if fame, wealth...impressing other people. He had his choice of women, and lost his marriage because of it.

Wilt Chamberlain, the basketball player, casually slept with 20,000 women. There's 20,000 women, right there, that display this social convention.

We can go on and on with examples of this.

Feminism created a system where men jump through hoops trying to impress women, and women use their bodies as a reward for this.

That same friend above, also told me you need to impress women. Another quote from him, "Treating women with respect does not impress them. Treat them like little girls, that's charm. Make them giggle."

This guy would go out every weekend and pickup a different gal every night.

I think one of the reasons I'm single, is that the last 10 +gals I've met. I lost interest in them after the 3rd date. I felt like I had to impress them. I then lost respect for them, even though they may have been good gals.

Fortunately, I'm very happy being single. I've lost the sense of needing to impress other people. I like to fly under the radar. The things I respect I don't have to impress. Weigts at the gym, the weights never lie, they are constant. My job, I have the perfect career for myself, I can work hard and that is respected. We don't get praise at work, but we don't get hastled either. I won't get rich or impress others..but that's OK.

And that's the constant battle with trying to get into the dating game. The trade off of values. Do we have to trade off our values to impress other people? Do I set goals in life towards impressing others?

My values are humble ones, not impressive. I treat folks with a smile and respect. I believe humilty is a virtue, and to treat others as I would like to be treated. I don't like attention from other people, but I enjoy their company.

Anyway, sorry for the rant. When I think of the hastles of dating gals, it's just a big arrggh. :(

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I do not bother to impress any women. I refuse to jump through ANY hoops to impress a woman. Women with either like me or dislike me. It is so much easier to just be myself. I am a secure person and I do not need a woman to make me happy. The way that I see it, I am responsible for generating and maintaining my own happiness level. I cannot rely on a woman to do that for me.

Liquid, Not only do you have to be self-sufficient financially and physically but you also have to be emotionally self-sufficient. Being completely dependent on someone else to make you happy is IMO not being emotionally self sufficient.

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Originally Posted by 1970 silver art

I do not bother to impress any women. I refuse to jump through ANY hoops to impress a woman. Women with either like me or dislike me. It is so much easier to just be myself. I am a secure person and I do not need a woman to make me happy. The way that I see it, I am responsible for generating and maintaining my own happiness level. I cannot rely on a woman to do that for me.

Liquid, Not only do you have to be self-sufficient financially and physically but you also have to be emotionally self-sufficient. Being completely dependent on someone else to make you happy is IMO not being emotionally self sufficient.

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I suppose I'm stubborn that way too. Still human though, and the temptation to go out and pick up a gal for the night is there.

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Originally Posted by Liquid

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Originally Posted by 1970 silver art

I do not bother to impress any women. I refuse to jump through ANY hoops to impress a woman. Women with either like me or dislike me. It is so much easier to just be myself. I am a secure person and I do not need a woman to make me happy. The way that I see it, I am responsible for generating and maintaining my own happiness level. I cannot rely on a woman to do that for me.

Liquid, Not only do you have to be self-sufficient financially and physically but you also have to be emotionally self-sufficient. Being completely dependent on someone else to make you happy is IMO not being emotionally self sufficient.

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I suppose I'm stubborn that way too. Still human though, and the temptation to go out and pick up a gal for the night is there.

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Yeah me too Liquid. I am human too. I will admit that in the past, I have thought about dating but the cold hard reality always seems to splash cold water on my face and as a result, I end up not dating any women. The last time that I went out on a date was in 2002 and ever since that time, I have become more and more emotionally self-sufficient. Being single and enjoying my hobbies are the two main things that keep me happy and allow me to stay emotionally self-sufficient.

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Originally Posted by Joe King

IMHO, a strong woman who knows herself how to survive by living a sustainable lifestyle is far more attractive than one that isn't.

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Ever notice that all the "strong women" you adore on teevee are always childless? Real women with real children in the real world require real men for protection and support. Men who are immature shirkers embrace the silly notion that women be responsible for raising their children alone. Some even evade court-ordered child support. Nice try pal...lol.

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What I meant by a "strong" woman is just one who understands how to live a sustainable life without having to always have a man as a SO in their life.
i.e. one that doesn't have to be dependant simply to be able to survive in the World.